Thursday, January 16, 2014

Would you like to have two extra months in 2014?

Seems hard to believe, but many people could have an extra 2 months in 2014 and every other year. How? By reducing the amount of time they watch television. I made this commitment for 2014 simply because it felt like a good thing to do, but when I actually looked at some statistics and negative effects of television, I was blown away and knew I had to explore this further.

Did you know that the average American spends over five hours every day watching TV? That’s over two months a year, nine years in a lifetime! Wow. I am quite sure it’s pretty similar in the rest of the Western world… Statistics also show that 54% of 4-6 year-olds who, when asked to choose between watching TV and spending time with their fathers, preferred television. Yikes! And did you also know that watching television makes us more passive, fat and materialistic? Oh oh... (You can see more about this in a great article here).

Now I don’t want to make this post all about how evil television is, because it does have positives as well (a good documentary can facilitate learning, a talent show may inspire us to share our talents with the world, it can be relaxing to watch our favorite show or exciting to watch our favorite teams play….), but because this is a post about reducing TV time, I will focus more an a couple of the negatives I find most important.

First of all, television programming shapes our minds much more than we think. For example, in a movie or TV show, something is always happening, the action sequences are fast, there are virtually no breaks. In fact, it has been proven that movie shots are getting shorter, as prior to the 1960s, the average shot length was 8-11 seconds, but now it is something like 4-6 seconds. This results in us subconsciously believing that our lives should also take place at this pace, and when they don’t, we start thinking something is wrong. And we get restless, rob ourselves of valuable rest and contemplation time, etc. Professor Jon Kabat-Zinn likes to say that as a species we are increasingly turning from “human beings” into “human doings,” and I believe television is a big reason for this.

Second, and this goes hand-in-hand with the first one, television negatively affects our view of the world. Think of all the violence we see, or of all the negative stories on the news. Instead of seeing the world as a friendly place full of people who want to help us (see previous post :-), we start seeing the world as a dangerous place where people and nature need to be feared. Steve Chandler, the author of the excellent “100 Ways To Motivate Yourself,” says the following in his book:

If we realized exactly how much vulgar, pessimistic, and manipulative negativity was deliberately packed into every daily newspaper and most television shows and Hollywood movies, we would resist the temptation to flood our brains with their garbage. Most of us are more particular about what we put in our automobile’s gas tank than we are about what we put in our own brain every night. We passively feed ourselves with stories about serial killers and violent crime without any conscious awareness of the choice we’re making.

Uff.

And third, television (and newspapers and the Internet…) robs us of time we could spend much more positively. Think of all the things you could do with an extra one to two hours per day: get more sleep, read or write a book, exercise, talk with family or friends, cook a healthy meal. The list is endless. And think how much better you’d feel after one of those activities.

So now that we’ve pointed out some good reasons to reduce TV time, let’s talk about the best ways to actually accomplish that. As with most things, I am a big believer in starting small, in baby steps. I would start by making a review of all the programs you watch and making a list of the reasons you watch particular programs and the benefits and negatives they bring. Then try a week or two without one or two programs at the bottom of your list, and replace the time with a positive activity of your choice. And simply see where this takes you.
                                                                                                      
So as 2014 is off to a roaring start, let’s get more conscious about the content we allow into our lives, let’s cut down on television a bit, and let’s fill this newly found time with positive activities!

Tomas

PS: While doing a bit of research for this post, I came across some funny or inspiring TV related quotes that I thought I’d share here as well:

Television is a medium because anything well done is rare.
Fred Allen

If you’re watching too much television and you know it, you might find it useful to ask this one question: “Which side of the glass do I want to live on?”
Steve Chandler

I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book.
Grouch Marx

In Beverly Hills... they don't throw their garbage away. They make it into television shows.
Woody Allen

Thursday, January 9, 2014

British man becomes first person to visit all 201 countries... WITHOUT using a plane

Wow, what amazing inspiration! And what a great quote by the man himself, Graham Hughes, age 33: 

"I think I wanted to show that the world is not some big, scary place, but in fact is full of people who want to help you." -- BEAUTIFUL!!!

Btw, still think your 2014 resolutions are hard to keep? :-)

Read the whole story in the Daily Mail Online here.

Thursday, August 9, 2012

Are you being too positive?

The New York times recently ran a great thought provoking article called The Positive Power of Negative Thinking, which I noticed thanks to Dan Millman's sharing it on Facebook. I found many of the article's key points very consistent with my experience and findings on my journey, some of which I've tried to share via previous articles on this blog (ideas such as "goal setting is not always a good thing" or "a healthy person is angry 10% of waking hours, sad 10% of waking hours and generally happy/satisfied the rest of the time"). The article also challenges the effectiveness of affirmations, which is something that I intend to write about soon as well (for the record, I am not a big fan of positive affirmations because they "treat" the surface - I much more prefer a method such as Dynamind, which I've also written about, because it goes deeper towards the roots). But the thing I like most about the article is that it encourages us to see things not positively (or negatively), but to see them as they really are. And that's what I believe should be one of the main goals of the "journey towards happiness".

Monday, June 11, 2012

Did you know that you can live this life twice?!?

Recently I took a walk through the center of Prague, and in the Kampa area, close to the medieval Charles Bridge, I came across a monument that Prague firefighters built for the firefighters that lost their lives in New York in 2001. And the motto that is written on the monument goes something like this:


"A firefighter is a person who lives in this world twice: once for himself and once for others. And that is why a firefighter's life is the right example for the proper understanding of the human life."

Isn't that awesome??? That we can actually live this life twice?!? I am sure that firefighters won't mind if we take this concept as applicable for all people who engage in service to others. I really think that this is getting just about as close as we can get to the essence of life itself. So, let's all of us live this life twice! And as a bonus, I am sure that our personal happiness will soar sky high as a side-effect!

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Turn right for enlightenment | OdeWire

Another great article from OdeWire, where the findings are absolutely consistent with what I believe as a result of my journey... Roy Martina suggests hypnosis as a way to access the subconscious, I propose holotropic breathwork as another...

Turn right for enlightenment | OdeWire

Thursday, April 12, 2012

The Prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi

As a spiritual but non-religious person, I do not come across prayers too often. But recently in one intensive personal and spiritual development session we worked with a prayer that I found absolutely beautiful and an almost perfect summary of what the spiritual path (and a life based on joy and happiness) should be all about. So I would like to share the Prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi below.

And as long as I am writing on the subject of prayer, I would also like to offer a tip to those who have a resistance to prayers (as I did and sometimes still do): Instead of thinking "prayer", think "speaking from the heart to the creator, a higher source or to something that transcends us". You may find that such a shift may release tremendous energy and joy deep from your heart. Also, try experimenting with creating your own prayers or "speeches from the heart to a higher source", according to your wishes and needs at the time.


Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury,pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Eating healthy foods is only a small part of really eating healthy!

One of my new year's resolutions was to eat more healthy. So I cut down on stuff like sweets, cola drinks, alcohol and increased the amount of vegetables, fruits, high-quality juices, wholewheat grains, nuts, beans, etc., in my diet. Basically no brainer stuff, but surprisingly hard to do. But the more I thought about healthy eating, the more convinced I became that eating healthy foods is only a small part of really eating healthy! By that I mean that I believe that just as important is eating slowly, fully chewing the food, eating fully concentrated (i.e., not reading or watching TV while eating), eating with appreciation for the food itself and for the energy contained in the food, savoring each food's different taste and smell, and so on. I really believe that in today's high-paced world we have lost much of these aspects of eating healthy, which were probably once as natural as breathing deeply or getting lots of movement. However, at least in my experience, these non-food aspects of eating healthy are even harder to do than eating the right foods. Anyway, I just wanted this post to be a "hmm, lemme think about that for a while" kind of post, rather than a "this is what I think everyone should do" kind of post. So, what do you think about this? Are there are other factors of eating healthy that I've missed? And how important do you think they really are? I am curious to hear your thoughts. Tomas

Friday, December 30, 2011

A fantastic song for this time of year

Just heard this 2010 song by Annie Lennox and thought it was absolutely perfect for this time of year... and going forward in 2012. It's called The Universal Child:



And here are the lyrics, I believe composed by Annie herself, should you be interested:

How many mountains must you face before you learn to climb.
I'm gonna give you what it takes, my universal child.

I'm gonna try to find a way to keep you safe from harm.
I'm gonna be a special place, a shelter from the storm.
And I can see you, you’re everywhere, your portrait fills the sky.
I'm gonna wrap my arms around you, my universal child.

And when I look into your eyes, so innocent and pure.
I see the shadow of the things that you've had to endure.
I see the tracks of every tear that ran ran down your face.
I see the hurt, I see the pain, I see the human race.
I can feel you, you’re everywhere, shining like the sun.
And I wish to God that kids like you could be like everyone.

How many tumbles must it take before you learn to fly.
I'm going to help you spread your wings, my universal child.

I can feel you everywhere shining like the sun.
And I wish to God that kids like you could be like everyone.
And I wish to God that kids like you could be like everyone.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

2012: Let's live in a way that does not infringe on the rights of future generations

Recently while working on a translation assignment, I came across some incredible words about the currently popular topic of "sustainable development". I found the words so pertinent to today's situation on planet Earth  that I want them to be the last words on this blog before I wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. These words will certainly inspire me greatly as I think about my priorities for 2012.

Permanently sustainable development - or more precisely, way of life - is focused on the search for harmony between man and nature, between society and its environment, so that we come as close as possible to the ideals of humanism and reverence for life and nature in all of its forms and in all time horizons. It is a way of life that searches for balance between the freedoms and rights of each individual and his/her responsibility towards other people and nature as a whole, including responsibility towards the future generations. We should adopt the principle that the freedom of every individual ends not only where the freedom of another individual begins, but also where the destruction of nature begins. Let's live so that in satisfying our needs, we do not infringe on the rights of those that come after us.

JOSEF VAVROUÅ EK (15.9.1944 – 19.3.1995) - the first Czechoslovakian Minister of the Environment

Friday, October 21, 2011

Charlie Chaplin's speech in The Great Dictator

Wow, I had no idea Charlie Chaplin had this dimension to him. Also amazing how this speech is so relevant to today...

Sunday, August 21, 2011

10 easy steps to relaxation

Today's aktualne.cz online daily published (in Czech) a great 10-step guide to relaxing, so because ability to relax is so important for living a happy life, I am taking a liberty of providing a translation below. I hope you enjoy it and actually find the time to use it :-)
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Take a look at dogs - they use as many moments as possible for relaxing. Relaxing the body soon results in a relaxed mind. Try it like the dogs do, experts say!

Pick a calm, quiet place, where nobody will disturb you.

Start breathing as slowly and deeply as possible. The breathing should be calm and regular.

Before you begin, do a few excercise to remove any muscle tension.

Get comfortable - sit or lay down.

Slightly tighten and then relax all body parts, one by one: start with the tips of your toes and continue up to the head and face.

Concentrate on each body part, and think about heat, heaviness and relaxation.

Banish all thoughts that may disturb you: imagine how they are physically floating away.

Do not try to consciously relax your mind, just focus on the gradual relaxing of muscle groups.

Remain like this for at least 20 minutes. Then take a few deep breaths and open your eyes. But remain seated or lying down before you get up. And again think of a dog or another animal: before they get up, they always stretch out thoroughly.




Sunday, August 14, 2011

Standing in the light | OdeWire

Interesting insights into human health. Plus a great story of a man working hard trying to make the world a better place. OdeWire does make for inspiring reading!

Standing in the light | OdeWire

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

God doesn't work in mysterious ways. We do. God simply is.

Lately I've been hearing the term "God works in mysterious ways" a lot. Or maybe I've just been noticing it a lot. At any rate, I started pondering this and suddenly realized that I don't think God works in mysterious ways at all. I believe that God simply "is", does his thing, and lets us do our thing (within a given set of physical and spiritual laws). And it's us that works in mysterious ways. It's a partnership that keeps the world (in a broader sense) going forward. And in this partnership we attribute a lot to God, which we should actually attribute to ourselves. Perhaps it's a self-defense mechanism of trying to reduce our own responsibility for the almost infinite power that we really do have. Brings to mind Nelson Mandela's famous quote: "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure."

And by the way, do you know how Mandela's quote continues? How about this: " It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

Wow.

Powerfull stuff, that can sometimes be confusing. So what should I do, people sometimes ask. If I may offer a piece of advice that I got from a native American woman shaman, how about: "When in doubt, choose love". That always seems to work out well in the long-run...

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

A big lesson from my eight month old son on perspective shifts

A couple of days ago I was doing the laundry while I was home alone with my now eight month old son Tobias. He was awake and in full activity mode when the laundry finished. He loves observing whenever we do something he hasn't seen before, so I placed him in a child seat from which he could watch me take the clothes out of the washing machine and put them on the clothes drying rack outside. I was a bit tired and in a bit of a rush, so when I noticed that in spite of carefull inspection before putting the clothes into the washing machine, a paper tissue had somehow gotten into the machine and of course ended up in hundreds of small bits all over the wet clothes, I got quite upset inside. So trying to hide my anger, I started to whip the clothes around one by one in order to get the paper bits off. And whadyaknow, Tobias started laughing as he thought it was something fun to do! Boy what a shift of perspective that was for me! I started laughing too and pretty soon it really was a fun thing to do! And in a couple of minutes all the bits were gone and I thanked Tobi for the big lesson he taught me - I can shift my perspective like that any time I want!

Friday, June 17, 2011

The top 5 regrets people have on their deathbed

Wow, another super powerful article I just came across at thenextweb.com. Here's the quick summary of the top five regrets people have on their deathbed:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

And my wish is that all of us allow at least a little bit of all of the five wishes above into our lives!

Friday, June 3, 2011